{"id":2855,"date":"2026-10-02T18:27:28","date_gmt":"2026-10-02T09:27:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.earthinus.com\/?p=2855"},"modified":"2026-10-04T18:34:45","modified_gmt":"2026-10-04T09:34:45","slug":"%e5%a5%b3%e6%80%a7%e7%94%a8%e6%80%a7%e6%84%9f%e3%83%9e%e3%83%83%e3%82%b5%e3%83%bc%e3%82%b8%e6%96%bd%e8%a1%93%e6%97%a5%e8%a8%9815%e3%80%90%e4%bb%a5%e5%89%8d%e3%81%8b%e3%82%89%e5%a5%b3%e6%80%a7-2-2-2-83","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.earthinus.com\/en\/2855","title":{"rendered":"It Felt So Good I Wondered What All the Sex I\u2019d Had Before Even Was | Jofu Experience #101"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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This session was with Aya, a 34-year-old office worker. Her reason for applying was, \u201cI wanted to experience a vaginal orgasm.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pre-Session Consultation<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\u203bThe conversation below has been recreated from notes taken on the consultation sheet. No recordings were made.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sexual Experience<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Have you ever used a jofu service or had a sensual massage for women before?<\/p>\n\n\n

\"\"Aya<\/span><\/div>
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No. I had wondered whether I should try a jofu service, but I never actually went as far as looking one up.<\/p>\n<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n

How old were you when you first had sex, and how many people have you had sex with in total?<\/p>\n\n\n

\"\"Aya<\/span><\/div>
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I\u2019ve had sex with around 20 people. I first had sex when I was 16.<\/p>\n<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n

Are you currently in a relationship?<\/p>\n\n\n

\"\"Aya<\/span><\/div>
\n

I have someone who\u2019s more like a friend with benefits.<\/p>\n<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n

What is sex usually like for you, and what has it been like with previous partners?<\/p>\n\n\n

\"\"Aya<\/span><\/div>
\n

The person I\u2019m seeing now does spend time on foreplay, but I still can\u2019t orgasm. I don\u2019t really fake my reactions. He takes a long time to finish and proudly claims that because of that, every woman he\u2019s been with has had vaginal orgasms. He seems disappointed that I can\u2019t, but honestly, I suspect most of those women were probably faking it…

In my twenties, sex didn\u2019t feel good at all, and I thought it was something you did for the other person. But in my thirties, I finally discovered how good it could feel and realized, \u201cWow, I actually really like sex.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n

About Orgasms<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Have you ever experienced clitoral, vaginal, or mind-induced orgasms?<\/p>\n\n\n

\"\"Aya<\/span><\/div>
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I\u2019ve had clitoral orgasms. I\u2019ve never had a vaginal or mind-induced orgasm. I\u2019ve listened to audio that was supposed to induce a mind orgasm before, but I didn\u2019t really understand it. I did once orgasm in a dream and wake up from it, though.<\/p>\n<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n

How do you feel after a clitoral orgasm? Can you have another one soon afterward?<\/p>\n\n\n

\"\"Aya<\/span><\/div>
\n

My arousal doesn\u2019t really go down. I can orgasm multiple times, so I\u2019d actually like to be pushed until I feel like I can\u2019t take any more.<\/p>\n<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n

Have you ever reached orgasm from stimulation by a partner?<\/p>\n\n\n

\"\"Aya<\/span><\/div>
\n

Only once in my life from someone using their fingers. I think I can orgasm if a toy is used.<\/p>\n<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n

What do you imagine vaginal and mind-induced orgasms feel like? Have you heard much about them?<\/p>\n\n\n

\"\"Aya<\/span><\/div>
\n

I imagine a vaginal orgasm feels different from a clitoral one and must feel incredibly good. I don\u2019t really know what a mind-induced orgasm is like.<\/p>\n<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n

Sexual Preferences<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

How do you usually masturbate, and how often?<\/p>\n\n\n

\"\"Aya<\/span><\/div>
\n

About three or four times a week, and sometimes every day when I\u2019m in the mood. I usually watch porn. I like things like squirting, threesomes, and scenes where the woman keeps being pleasured until she feels like she can\u2019t take any more.<\/p>\n<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n

Do you have any particular kinks? What kinds of sexual situations have turned you on in the past?<\/p>\n\n\n

\"\"Aya<\/span><\/div>
\n

I like having my hands held down.<\/p>\n<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n

Are there any types of play you are interested in or would like to try?<\/p>\n\n\n

\"\"Aya<\/span><\/div>
\n

I want to be pleasured until I feel like I can\u2019t take any more.<\/p>\n<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n

Are there any types of play you are uncomfortable with or do not want to try?<\/p>\n\n\n

\"\"Aya<\/span><\/div>
\n

I don\u2019t like anything painful or anything that makes it hard to breathe. Being spanked doesn\u2019t really do anything for me either. Someone suddenly slapped my butt once in the past, and it completely killed the mood.<\/p>\n<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n

Would you describe yourself as more dominant or submissive?<\/p>\n\n\n

\"\"Aya<\/span><\/div>
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Submissive.<\/p>\n<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n

Additional Information<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Do you experience pain during intercourse?<\/p>\n\n\n

\"\"Aya<\/span><\/div>
\n

No.<\/p>\n<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n

Do your clitoris or nipples tend to become painful during stimulation?<\/p>\n\n\n

\"\"Aya<\/span><\/div>
\n

Not at all. If anything, I actually prefer stronger stimulation.<\/p>\n<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n

How sensitive do you consider yourself to be? Are there any areas of your body that are particularly sensitive?<\/p>\n\n\n

\"\"Aya<\/span><\/div>
\n

I don\u2019t think my sensitivity is bad, but it takes me a while to get there. I think I feel more internally near the entrance. My nipples, neck, ears, and back are sensitive too. My body doesn\u2019t really twitch or anything like that, though.<\/p>\n<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n

Kink Jar Discussion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

I had her fill out the Kink Jar and then asked her more detailed questions about each item.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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https:\/\/seiheki-bin.com\/official1<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Session Details and Impressions<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

My first impression when we met was that she seemed bright, talkative, and refreshingly straightforward. During the consultation, she spoke openly about her experiences and thoughts, so communication was very easy. On the other hand, even during breaks in the session, she often chatted in much the same way as usual, which made her seem like the type who tends to stay mentally composed rather than becoming completely absorbed in physical sensations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She described herself as fairly sensitive, but based on what she told me, it seemed possible that she responded more strongly to direct stimulation of specific areas than to light stimulation across the body. Because of that, I suspected that an approach focused on gradually deepening a trance-like state might not be the best match for her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When I started with feather-light touch, there were almost no obvious twitching reactions, and she did not seem to become especially absorbed through words or atmosphere either. I also tried breathing techniques and alternating muscle tension with relaxation, but there was no major change.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, once I added direct breast stimulation, her reactions changed noticeably and she began making sounds naturally. In contrast, broader stimulation around the chest and stimulation designed to draw her awareness inward from the outside produced relatively little response. It seemed that her pleasure was particularly concentrated in direct breast stimulation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Even after moving to the bed, the trance-like state remained relatively shallow. I tried positions where her legs were held in place, stimulation around the vaginal entrance, and internal stimulation, but it was difficult to produce a clear response that looked like a vaginal orgasm. Combining stimulation with a countdown produced a few small reactions, but they did not seem strong enough for her to clearly recognize them herself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Since her response to external stimulation was fairly subtle at first as well, I paused for an oil massage. During the massage, stronger stimulation around her groin and buttocks made her vocalize, but she still did not enter a state where she seemed able to completely let go and lose herself in the sensations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

After that, I combined breast stimulation with internal stimulation in line with what she wanted, and her response was noticeably different. Her body reacted much more strongly as her internal muscles tightened, and although it was still relatively mild, she was able to reach a state that seemed close to a vaginal orgasm. It appeared that stimulation of her breasts helped bring the internal pleasure together, so combining external pleasure with internal stimulation seemed to suit her well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Overall, she seemed less responsive to approaches that relied on words or feather-light touch to deepen a trance-like state, and more responsive when stimulation focused directly on areas she already knew were pleasurable, such as her breasts. The key for her seemed to be building arousal first through sensations she could clearly recognize, and then connecting that arousal to internal stimulation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Post-Session Questionnaire<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

What made you decide to book a session?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I wanted to experience a vaginal orgasm.
I wasn\u2019t satisfied with the sex I was having.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What was your impression of the therapist?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gentle but dominant. Younger than I expected.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

How would you rate your satisfaction with the session on a scale of one to five?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Please feel free to share any comments about the session or a message for the therapist.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It felt so good, and I\u2019m extremely satisfied.
It honestly made me wonder what all the sex I\u2019d had before even was… (lol)
Thank you so much!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Additional Thoughts Shared by Email<\/h2>\n\n\n
\"\"Aya<\/span><\/div>
\n

Thank you so much for making time for me despite being busy!

I originally booked the session because I was absolutely determined to experience a vaginal orgasm, but in the end, it felt so good that I honestly stopped caring whether I could have one or not.

It was so completely different from anything I had experienced before that I found myself thinking, \u201cMaybe what I\u2019d been doing until now wasn\u2019t even sex (lol). Maybe today was the first time I actually had sex.\u201d

I\u2019ve always had a high sex drive and have wanted to be pleasured so intensely that I completely lose myself, but I usually end up feeling unsatisfied. This time, though, I was completely satisfied (lol).

I love fingering and squirting, but until now, I had never met anyone who would really go all the way with it. Maybe you somehow picked up on that, because it felt so good for so long that I eventually stopped feeling embarrassed altogether and just kept squirting over and over.

The stimulation itself felt incredibly gentle, but somehow the pleasure just kept welling up…

In the past, after sex, even if the actual session had been short and I shouldn\u2019t have been physically tired, I would still feel sluggish and have a heavy sensation in my lower abdomen. This time, even though the session lasted much longer and you did so much more, I didn\u2019t feel sluggish at all. If anything, my body felt lighter and more energized afterward.

I had also always struggled with the cowgirl position. I never felt like I was doing it properly, and I didn\u2019t find it pleasurable, so I had developed a bit of a complex about it. But today, when you carefully showed me how to move, it felt unbelievably good! I was honestly shocked and thought, \u201cWait, I didn\u2019t know this either?!\u201d

It was also my first time squirting during penetration, and that genuinely surprised me. It felt so good I thought I might lose my mind. (I even started crying and completely ruined my makeup, lol.)

I had always assumed that orgasm = pleasure = greater satisfaction, but I realized that isn\u2019t necessarily true. (Which means I still haven\u2019t even discovered what it feels like to orgasm after pleasure like that, right? lol)

I\u2019m still very aware that my thoughts tend to get in the way, so I want to use your advice and work on letting myself surrender more fully to the experience.

I know I\u2019m close to the upper end of the age range, but if possible, I\u2019d really like to book another session.
I want to experience that pleasure again (lol).

I\u2019m really glad I worked up the courage to contact you and got to meet Aki.
Thank you so much for today!<\/p>\n<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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