{"id":2658,"date":"2023-10-13T15:36:00","date_gmt":"2023-10-13T06:36:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.earthinus.com\/?p=2658"},"modified":"2026-08-16T11:44:07","modified_gmt":"2026-08-16T02:44:07","slug":"%e5%a5%b3%e6%80%a7%e7%94%a8%e6%80%a7%e6%84%9f%e3%83%9e%e3%83%83%e3%82%b5%e3%83%bc%e3%82%b8%e6%96%bd%e8%a1%93%e6%97%a5%e8%a8%987%e3%80%90%e9%9d%9e%e6%97%a5%e5%b8%b8%e7%9a%84%e3%81%aa%e7%99%92%e3%82%84","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.earthinus.com\/en\/2658","title":{"rendered":"Seeking a Relaxing Escape from Everyday Life | Jofu Experience #7"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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This session\u2019s participant is Tsubasa, a 24-year-old office worker. Her reason for applying was that she wanted to experience a relaxing escape from everyday life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pre-Session Consultation<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\u203bThe conversation below has been recreated from notes taken on the consultation sheet. No recordings were made.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sexual Experience<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Have you ever used a jofu service or had a sensual massage for women before?<\/p>\n\n\n

\"\"Tsubasa<\/span><\/div>
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I used a well-known major jofu service once before. I had a friend who was really into jofu and recommended it to me, so I decided to give it a try without choosing a specific therapist. It wasn\u2019t bad, but I don\u2019t think I\u2019d use it again. The session was probably pretty standard: it started with a simple oil massage, followed by sensual stimulation and then penetrative sex. I was the one who asked for sex, and the therapist jokingly said, \u201cHmm, should I?\u201d but we ended up doing it normally.<\/p>\n<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n

How old were you when you first had sex, and how many people have you had sex with in total?<\/p>\n\n\n

\"\"Tsubasa<\/span><\/div>
\n

I first had sex when I was around 18. I\u2019ve never counted how many people I\u2019ve been with, but it\u2019s more than 100.<\/p>\n<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n

Are you currently in a relationship?<\/p>\n\n\n

\"\"Tsubasa<\/span><\/div>
\n

No. Lately I\u2019ve just been casually seeing different people here and there. I usually get bored after sleeping with someone a few times.<\/p>\n<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n

What is sex usually like for you, and what has it been like with previous partners?<\/p>\n\n\n

\"\"Tsubasa<\/span><\/div>
\n

It depends on the person. I\u2019ve experienced so many different things that I\u2019ve kind of come full circle and now think ordinary sex might actually be best. I\u2019ve tried pretty much everything except scat, both on the dominant and submissive sides. I\u2019ve done hardcore BDSM and bondage, including being suspended with ropes as the submissive partner. I\u2019ve also worked at an adult service catering to submissive men, and for a while I even had a submissive guy who was basically my pet. I feel like a lot of men didn\u2019t spend very long on foreplay. I also used to fake reactions because I thought that was just something you were supposed to do to keep the mood going.<\/p>\n<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n

About Orgasms<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Have you ever experienced clitoral, vaginal, or mind-induced orgasms?<\/p>\n\n\n

\"\"Tsubasa<\/span><\/div>
\n

I\u2019ve never had a vaginal orgasm. It would be nice if I could, but I\u2019ve basically given up because I don\u2019t think I\u2019m capable of it. Other than pretending to twitch or acting like I\u2019m having something similar to a vaginal orgasm, I\u2019ve never really experienced anything like that. I have had clitoral orgasms. I\u2019m not really sure what a mind-induced orgasm is.<\/p>\n<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n

How do you feel after a clitoral orgasm? Can you have another one soon afterward?<\/p>\n\n\n

\"\"Tsubasa<\/span><\/div>
\n

I basically go into a post-orgasm shutdown. Mentally, I just feel blank, and physically everything starts to feel ticklish instead of pleasurable. I\u2019ve never tried having consecutive orgasms, so I don\u2019t know if I can.<\/p>\n<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n

Have you ever reached orgasm from stimulation by a partner?<\/p>\n\n\n

\"\"Tsubasa<\/span><\/div>
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It\u2019s almost impossible for me to orgasm when someone else is stimulating me. Even by myself, I can only orgasm with a wand vibrator.<\/p>\n<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n

What do you imagine vaginal and mind-induced orgasms feel like? Have you heard much about them?<\/p>\n\n\n

\"\"Tsubasa<\/span><\/div>
\n

What do I imagine…? I guess just feeling really good inside and then orgasming. I\u2019ve never really thought about it, so I don\u2019t know.<\/p>\n<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n

Sexual Preferences<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

How do you usually masturbate, and how often?<\/p>\n\n\n

\"\"Tsubasa<\/span><\/div>
\n

Only occasionally. I hardly ever masturbate on my own. I don\u2019t like getting my fingers messy, so I usually use a wand vibrator through my underwear. In videos, I tend to like girls with a very youthful look. I\u2019m attracted to women too, although it\u2019s not because I dislike men.<\/p>\n<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n

Do you have any particular kinks? What kinds of sexual situations have turned you on in the past?<\/p>\n\n\n

\"\"Tsubasa<\/span><\/div>
\n

I\u2019ve tried a lot of different things, but I don\u2019t think I have any particular kink. I am pretty curious, though.<\/p>\n<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n

Are there any types of play you are interested in or would like to try?<\/p>\n\n\n

\"\"Tsubasa<\/span><\/div>
\n

I just want to relax and feel cared for.<\/p>\n<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n

Are there any types of play you are uncomfortable with or do not want to try?<\/p>\n\n\n

\"\"Tsubasa<\/span><\/div>
\n

A lot of men like to spank me, but it just makes me want to hit them back, so I\u2019d rather not be spanked.<\/p>\n<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n

How would you describe your dominant-to-submissive balance?<\/p>\n\n\n

\"\"Tsubasa<\/span><\/div>
\n

I prefer taking the dominant role, but I don\u2019t think I\u2019m strongly one or the other.<\/p>\n<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n

Additional Information<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Do you experience pain during intercourse?<\/p>\n\n\n

\"\"Tsubasa<\/span><\/div>
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It depends on my partner\u2019s size, as well as things like firmness and shape.<\/p>\n<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n

Do your clitoris or nipples tend to become painful during stimulation?<\/p>\n\n\n

\"\"Tsubasa<\/span><\/div>
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The more delicate areas of my skin and mucous membranes may be prone to small tears.<\/p>\n<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n

How sensitive do you consider yourself to be? Are there any areas of your body that are particularly sensitive?<\/p>\n\n\n

\"\"Tsubasa<\/span><\/div>
\n

I think my sensitivity is about average. My nipples are sensitive, and so are my ears and neck. When I used to do hardcore bondage, the ropes themselves felt good too, although I think it was more of a pleasant pressure or pain, like acupressure, rather than sexual pleasure.<\/p>\n<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n

Session Details and Impressions<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Her main reason for applying was that she wanted to relax and feel cared for, while experiencing a vaginal orgasm would simply be a bonus. I decided to include guided relaxation and oil massage, while experimenting with the rest of the session and focusing on building mental arousal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Because she had a lot of sexual experience and had also used adult services before, I was a little concerned about whether I would be able to build enough excitement for her. However, her natural sensitivity was reasonably good, and she was also able to put the advice from the consultation into practice, so her sensitivity increased quite well during the session.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It seemed difficult for her to reach a clear, deep vaginal orgasm during this session, but she did have some noticeable physical reactions with both fingers and sex toys, including sudden twitches that seemed close to the response associated with a vaginal orgasm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She responded especially strongly when I combined nipple stimulation with dirty talk, with her body repeatedly twitching in response. Given the right conditions, I felt that she might also be able to experience mind-induced orgasms.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

While trying different things, we eventually realized that there were only a few dozen minutes left in the hotel\u2019s allotted time. It was cutting things close, but we decided to try penetrative sex as well. We went through several different positions, and she seemed to respond best to positions where we stayed in close contact while hugging.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

MICHI focuses on sensual exploration rather than ordinary sexual play, so I usually do very little kissing during sessions. However, I remembered that Tsubasa had said at the beginning that, after trying so many different things, she had \u201ccome full circle and might actually prefer normal sex.\u201d So I tried a close-contact missionary position while kissing her. Her response was the strongest of the entire session, and her body was visibly twitching with pleasure. We were already very close to the time we had to leave the room, but she said she wanted more, so we extended the hotel stay by about 30 minutes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Overall, she seemed very satisfied with the experience, which I was happy to see.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Post-Session Questionnaire<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

What made you decide to book a session?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I wanted to relax and be pampered.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What was your impression of the therapist?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

He seemed very calm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

How would you rate your satisfaction with the session on a scale of one to five?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2605\u2605\u2605\u2605\u2605<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Please feel free to share any comments about the session or a message for the therapist.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It felt soooo good!!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Additional Thoughts Shared by Email<\/h2>\n\n\n
\"\"Tsubasa<\/span><\/div>
\n

Thank you for yesterday \ud83d\ude0a

I mentioned this to you in person too, but I thought you were incredibly skilled with your fingers.

Sex toys usually don\u2019t feel that good to me either, but yesterday they actually felt really good, and I was impressed!

Also, a lot of men deliberately act as though they have romantic feelings for me during sex, and I really don\u2019t like that. I didn\u2019t get that kind of feeling from you at all, which was another thing I really appreciated \ud83d\ude02

Thank you for such a fun time \u263a\ufe0f<\/p>\n<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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