This session’s participant is Saya, a 28-year-old office worker. Her reasons for applying were that she wanted to experience a vaginal orgasm and learn how to please her partner better.
Pre-Session Consultation
The following conversation has been recreated based on notes I took during the consultation. No audio recording was made.
Sexual Experience
Have you ever used a jofu service or had a sensual massage for women before?
SayaNo, I haven’t. It wasn’t something I had been interested in for a long time either. I just happened to look it up yesterday and booked almost on impulse.
How old were you when you first had sex, and how many people have you had sex with in total?
SayaI first had sex when I was around 19, and I’ve had sex with about six people.
Are you currently in a relationship?
SayaYes, but we only have sex about once a month, sometimes not even that often, so we’re almost in a sexless relationship. I have a fairly high sex drive and would honestly be happy having sex every day, but my partner seems to have a much lower sex drive. One of the reasons I applied was that I wanted to become better at sex so that he might want me more. I’d also like to learn things like how to move and how to tighten my pelvic muscles.
What has sex usually been like for you?
SayaMost of my partners spent enough time on foreplay, so I was generally satisfied. For some reason, though, a lot of the people I’ve been with were submissive, so I often ended up taking the dominant role. I’ve done things like blindfolding and restraining my partner while teasing him.
About Orgasms
Have you ever experienced clitoral, vaginal, or mind-induced orgasms?
SayaI’ve experienced clitoral orgasms, but never vaginal or mind-induced orgasms.
How do you feel after a clitoral orgasm? Can you have another one soon afterward?
SayaI become very sensitive and don’t want to be touched anymore. I think I could probably orgasm again after about 30 minutes.
Have you ever reached orgasm from stimulation by a partner?
SayaNo, never.
What do you imagine vaginal and mind-induced orgasms feel like? Have you heard much about them?
SayaDoes a vaginal orgasm feel kind of light and floaty? I’m not really sure. This is actually the first time I’ve even heard the term “mind-induced orgasm.”
Sexual Preferences
How do you usually masturbate, and how often?
SayaUsually two or three times a week, often while watching erotic videos. I watch all kinds of things, but because I’ve often ended up taking the dominant role in real life, I particularly like videos where the woman is the one being teased or dominated.
Do you have any particular kinks? What kinds of sexual situations have turned you on in the past?
SayaNothing in particular, but I like giving oral sex. I get really turned on when I’m doing it.
Are there any types of play you are interested in or would like to try?
SayaNothing in particular.
Are there any types of play you are uncomfortable with or do not want to try?
SayaNothing in particular, but I get embarrassed when the room is too bright, so I’d prefer it to be dark. I’d also like to take a shower first.
How would you describe your dominant-to-submissive balance?
SayaI’d say I’m about 20% dominant and 80% submissive. I think I’m naturally submissive, but most of my previous partners were submissive too, so I often ended up taking the dominant role. I enjoy giving oral sex and get turned on by it, so I used to wonder if that meant I was dominant. But since I’m also serving my partner, maybe that makes me more submissive after all.
Additional Information
Do you experience pain during intercourse?
SayaNo, not particularly.
Do your clitoris or nipples tend to become painful during stimulation?
SayaMy clitoris tends to become painful if it’s touched too strongly.
How sensitive do you consider yourself to be? Are there any areas of your body that are particularly sensitive?
SayaMy ears and neck are pretty sensitive.
Session Details and Impressions
As mentioned in her reason for applying, one of Saya’s goals was to become better at pleasing her partner. However, based on what she told me, there did not seem to be any particular problem on her side. Her partner simply appeared to have a lower sex drive. For that reason, rather than focusing too much on ways to please him, I decided to concentrate primarily on helping her explore vaginal orgasms.
She was also worried that she might not feel tight enough inside. However, when a woman becomes aroused and experiences pleasure, the muscles inside naturally contract, so developing her ability to experience vaginal pleasure could also help with that concern.
Her sensitivity seemed quite good, so during the initial consultation I tried a simple mind-induced orgasm exercise. She responded almost immediately and said, “I felt like I was almost going to orgasm a little,” which made me feel that she had plenty of potential.
She told me that people usually see her as the innocent type and that sexual topics almost never come up around her. However, once we actually talked about sex during the consultation, it became clear that she had a strong sexual side as well.
Women who normally suppress their sexual desires can sometimes experience a sudden increase in pleasure once they finally let themselves go, so I focused on creating an atmosphere where she could feel that she did not need to hold back her sexual side.
I normally also use sex toys and sensual oil massage as part of vaginal orgasm exploration, but she particularly enjoyed vaginal orgasms during penetration. At one point she even said, “Forget the toys—I want more penetration,” so I spent more time on penetration during this session.
She was able to experience both mind-induced and vaginal orgasms, although I think there is still plenty of room for her sensitivity and pleasure to develop further.
Post-Session Questionnaire
What made you decide to book a session?
I wanted to experience a vaginal orgasm, among other things.
What was your impression of the therapist?
・Handsome
・Fresh and well-presented
・Incredibly skilled
How would you rate your satisfaction with the session on a scale of one to five?
★★★★★
Please feel free to share any comments about the session or a message for the therapist.
Thank you so much!!
Additional Thoughts Shared by Email
SayaThank you for yesterday.
My head felt kind of floaty afterward, so my memory is a little hazy…
But I’ll try to write everything down as I remember it.
I think this was the first time I really understood what vaginal and mind-induced orgasms feel like.
I’m sure the sensations are different for everyone, but for me, a vaginal orgasm felt like a tingling, pulsing sensation inside my vagina. Once I had one, it almost seemed to become addictive, because I was able to keep having them repeatedly.
With the mind-induced orgasms, even though I wasn’t being touched directly, it felt as if something was inside me and thrusting into me, and I ended up orgasming very easily. It was such a strange sensation.
I think being guided into such a relaxed state made both experiences much easier for me.
They felt quite different from a clitoral orgasm. It’s difficult to put into words, but clitoral pleasure feels more like stimulation on the surface, while vaginal pleasure felt gentler and deeper, as though it resonated through my body. I really liked the internal sensation.
The penetration at the end felt the best. I liked every position we tried. By then I had become very sensitive inside, which made it even more exciting. I was also relieved when you told me that I wasn’t unusually loose.
I also realized a lot of things about myself during the consultation.
I’ve often dated men who were more submissive, so I usually ended up being the one taking the lead.
That can be fun too, but because I was always watching my partner’s reactions and thinking about what to do next, I was constantly using the rational part of my mind.
This time, I feel like I was finally able to let go of that rational control and simply experience everything instinctively.
I realized that I like both sides of it.
Maybe I can switch depending on the day and find ways for both my partner and me to enjoy sex together.
It was such a valuable experience. Thank you so much!