This session’s participant is Runa, a 30-year-old office worker.
Her reasons for applying were to explore vaginal orgasms and improve sex with her partner.
Pre-Session Consultation
The following conversation has been recreated based on notes I took during the consultation. No audio recording was made.
Sexual Experience
Have you ever used a jofu service (a women-oriented male escort service) or experienced a sensual massage for women before?
RunaThis is my first time trying a sensual massage, but I have previously tried a form of hypnotherapy that was supposed to help women experience vaginal orgasms.
I think the place was in Akabane, although I cannot remember the name. I found it while searching for ways to experience a vaginal orgasm and decided to give it a try, but unfortunately it did not work for me.
The hypnosis seemed to be going well at first, but partway through I became too aware of what was happening and came out of it. At the end, we tried something called “imagined sex” with someone I liked, but I did not feel anything close to an orgasm.
I chose that service because I did not have to undress, which made it feel less intimidating. However, since I did not get the results I was hoping for, I decided to try a sensual massage this time.
How old were you when you first had sex, and how many people have you had sex with in total?
RunaI first had sex when I was around 20, and I’ve had sex with five or six people in total.
Are you currently in a relationship?
RunaYes.
What has sex usually been like for you?
RunaI normally get wet and it feels good, but it can be a little unsatisfying. Foreplay tends to be quite short, so I wish it lasted a bit longer.
I do not usually fake anything.
About Orgasms
Have you ever experienced clitoral, vaginal, or mind-induced orgasms?
RunaI have experienced clitoral orgasms. I have never been completely sure that I have had a vaginal orgasm, although there have been a few times when I thought I might have.
I have never experienced a mind-induced orgasm.
How do you feel after a clitoral orgasm? Can you have another one soon afterward?
RunaRight after I orgasm, I become very ticklish and sensitive. I usually recover after about 30 seconds, so I think I could have another orgasm after that.
Have you ever reached orgasm from stimulation by a partner?
RunaI can normally have a clitoral orgasm with a partner. There have also been a few times when I think I may have experienced something like a vaginal orgasm while being stimulated with their fingers.
What do you imagine vaginal and mind-induced orgasms feel like?
RunaI thought a vaginal orgasm might involve the muscles inside the vagina tightening strongly, so because I have never really felt that, I assumed I probably had not experienced one.
I am not really sure what a mind-induced orgasm is. Does it mean your brain somehow makes you feel as though you are orgasming?
I have also seen posts on Twitter about women orgasming when pressure is applied to the lower abdomen, so I had heard that something like that exists.
Sexual Preferences
How do you usually masturbate, and how often?
RunaUsually once or twice a month. I read erotic stories and use my fingers while fantasizing.
I usually do it lying on my stomach or sitting down, but I do not think there is anything particularly unusual about the way I do it.
Do you have any particular kinks? What kinds of sexual situations have turned you on in the past?
RunaNothing in particular.
Are there any types of play you are interested in or would like to try?
RunaI would like to try being teased and made to wait.
Are there any types of play you are uncomfortable with or do not want to try?
RunaI do not like having my stomach tickled.
How would you describe your dominant-to-submissive balance?
RunaI would say I am about 30% dominant and 70% submissive.
Additional Information
Do you experience pain during intercourse?
RunaNo, not particularly.
Do your clitoris or nipples tend to become painful during stimulation?
RunaNo, not particularly.
How sensitive do you consider yourself to be? Are there any areas of your body that are particularly sensitive?
RunaI think my back and neck are on the sensitive side. Internal stimulation and nipple stimulation also feel good to me.
Session Details and Impressions
She seemed quite tense today and had some difficulty relaxing, so I decided to begin with sensual massage and gradually help her loosen up.
Her reactions were fairly subtle at first, but after trying different types of stimulation, I found several areas that worked well for her. As we continued, she gradually entered a mild mind-induced orgasm state. The responses were still relatively small, but she was able to experience nipple orgasms, abdominal orgasms, and even mind-induced orgasms from verbal stimulation alone.
After that, we moved on to internal stimulation with my fingers, and she was able to experience a vaginal orgasm as well. It was still fairly mild, but she seemed to clearly recognize the sensation as an orgasm.
Because the vaginal orgasms were still shallow, after penetrative sex I finished the session with sensual oil massage and finger stimulation to help reinforce the sensation.
When the goal is to improve sex with a partner, ideally it is helpful to become able to reach vaginal orgasm during penetration rather than only through fingering. Fingering often depends heavily on the partner’s technique, while penetration can make it easier to reproduce the sensation without requiring the same level of skill.
She also seemed unfamiliar with several sexual positions, so we tried a variety of them to help her learn how vaginal pleasure feels during penetration.
I think she was able to grasp several important points about how to relax, enjoy the sensations, and move toward orgasm. She seems to have good natural potential, so if she becomes even more comfortable expressing and exploring her sexual side, I think she may be able to experience much deeper vaginal orgasms in the future.
Post-Session Questionnaire
What made you decide to book a session?
- I wanted to experience more pleasure during sex with my partner.
- I wanted to understand what a vaginal orgasm feels like.
What was your impression of the therapist?
Cool, handsome, and kind.
How would you rate your satisfaction with the session on a scale of one to five?
★★★★★
Please feel free to share any comments about the session or a message for the therapist.
He knew exactly where to touch me, and it felt amazing.
Additional Thoughts Shared by Email
RunaThis was my first time trying a sensual massage, so I was a little nervous, but Aki was a cool, handsome, and very well-groomed guy who spoke to me in such a calm and reassuring way.♪
At first, the mind-induced orgasms felt like my hips were moving and twitching on their own, with a slightly pleasurable sensation. But when I stood up afterward, I was surprised by how wet I had become.
After that, I trusted that following Aki’s guidance would help me feel even better. Once I focused completely on my own sensations, the pleasure kept building more and more.
With both fingering and penetration, he seemed to know exactly where I was feeling the most pleasure. As someone who is submissive, I really loved the feeling that he was completely in control of my pleasure.
I was too embarrassed to say this to his face, but I was also impressed by how big and consistently hard he was, and by how many different ways he used it…!
I had always imagined a vaginal orgasm as something like a clitoral orgasm felt deeper in the uterus, but now I understand through my own body that they are completely different sensations. I feel like I will be much better at noticing and following pleasurable sensations from now on.
Because I was showing such a sexual side of myself to someone I had only just met, I probably was not able to let go 100%. Even so, I felt as though I was orgasming almost continuously, and I could still feel a slight afterglow even after I got home.
I was definitely tired afterward, but I also felt incredibly satisfied.
Now I am really looking forward to having sex with my partner again.♪
Thank you so much! (*´T`)