Thank you for your interest in experiencing a session.
Some women simply want to enjoy better sex, but many contact me for more personal reasons, such as:
- Wanting to enjoy intimacy that makes them feel even closer to their partner
- Wanting to reconnect with their femininity because their work or lifestyle makes dating difficult
- Taking a first step toward a future relationship despite having little or no sexual experience
- Wanting to try it out of simple curiosity
- Wanting reassurance that there is nothing wrong with their body
- Feeling upset because they struggle to reach orgasm with their partner
- Wanting to discover a side of themselves they have never known before
Every woman comes with her own sincere concerns, hopes, and curiosity. I would be happy if this experience could help you take a positive step forward.
Real Stories from Women Who Tried Jofu
The women who have experienced vaginal orgasms through my sessions were not especially experienced or unusually sensitive. They were simply ordinary women, and some had even believed that they were unable to feel sexual pleasure.
Many had once thought this kind of experience had nothing to do with them. Some had never even heard of vaginal orgasms, while others had shown little interest in them before. Then, through a small moment of curiosity or an unexpected opportunity, they decided to try—and that experience often led to new discoveries, connections, and possibilities.
For many women, the session is not the final goal. It is the beginning of something new.
When viewed as part of a long life, I believe it can become a meaningful experience rather than a wasted one.
Availability
I can usually adjust my work and personal schedule, so weekday and weekend appointments are both possible.
Bookings for the same day or the day before may also be available, but I recommend contacting me at least two days in advance, as my schedule may already be full.
For last-minute bookings, I can only accept requests from those who are able to communicate and confirm details promptly.
For same-day appointments, please contact me at least six hours in advance, as I cannot usually accommodate immediate requests.
The session itself is free. Hotel costs are shared equally (50/50), regardless of age or other personal circumstances. I will explain the estimated cost in advance whenever possible.
Location
Sessions are generally available within Tokyo.
As hotels are often fully booked, meeting locations are currently limited to Shinjuku and Ikebukuro, where there are more hotel options.
Although Shibuya also has many hotels, I am unable to offer sessions there for privacy reasons related to my primary work.
Hotel Costs & Video Recording
Sessions are free, and hotel costs are shared equally (50/50). I do not record video during sessions conducted in English.
Some session videos on this website feature Japanese guests who expressly agreed to have parts of their sessions recorded and published.
For sessions conducted in English, there will be no video recording. You do not need to agree to filming or worry about being recorded during your session.
I do ask every guest to cooperate with a written session diary, including a short questionnaire, a photo holding the questionnaire, and feedback by email. These will be published anonymously on this website.
The session diary is separate from the video recordings shown on the Japanese-language site. I will explain the diary requirements before your appointment.
I will not secretly record audio or video. Any photographs for the session diary will be taken with your knowledge and permission.
Eligibility Requirements
As this is a free experience rather than a paid jofu service, I have set the following eligibility requirements:
- Women aged 18 to 39 (current high school students are not eligible)
- Those who take care of their personal hygiene and appearance
As a general guideline, a BMI below 24, along with good personal hygiene and grooming. - Those who communicate honestly and respect each other’s boundaries
You can always say no to activities you do not want to try. - Those who are willing to take an active part in the experience rather than leaving everything to me
- Those who are willing to contribute to a session diary published on this website
This includes completing a short paper questionnaire, taking a photo while holding it, and sharing feedback by email. The questionnaire, photo, and feedback will be published anonymously on this website.
You will not be asked to include any personally identifying information.
Having a partner is not a problem. In fact, most of the women who have taken part in my sessions have been in a relationship.
Reaching a vaginal orgasm involves more than physical stimulation. Feeling safe, relaxed, mentally present, and able to trust the other person can also play an important role.
In my experience, most women can reach that point with the right approach, although some naturally need more time than others. I have set eligibility requirements because I do not want anyone to spend their time on an experience that may not be right for them.
Every woman responds differently, regardless of age. Some discover new sensations quickly, while others may need more time. There is no need to compare yourself with anyone else.
Women who feel comfortable with themselves, take care of their appearance, and communicate openly often find it easier to relax during the session. The biggest obstacle is often worrying about how they look, how they sound, or what the other person may be thinking.
The appearance guidelines are not about expecting perfection. They are intended to help ensure that we can both feel comfortable. Please be honest about the information you provide, including your age and body type. Trust and clear communication are essential.
Taking care of yourself through fashion, beauty, exercise, or other forms of self-care can improve confidence and make it easier to feel at ease with another person. If you have recently been neglecting yourself, taking some time to focus on your own well-being before applying may help you enjoy the experience more fully.
Your own participation is also important. Rather than leaving everything to me, try to imagine the experience you want, focus on the sensations that feel good, and tell me what feels comfortable or uncomfortable. There is no need to pretend, perform, or endure anything you dislike.
The same openness applies to our conversations. This is a private and unusual kind of relationship where you do not need to hide every part of yourself. You may be able to show a side of yourself that you normally keep private. Simply wanting to relax and be open is already enough.
I will never be disappointed or offended if you do not reach orgasm. I will listen carefully, respect your pace, and make every effort to help you have a positive and meaningful experience—ideally within a single session, but without placing pressure on you to achieve a particular result.
FAQs
Q1. Can Every Woman Experience a Vaginal Orgasm?
I am not doing this simply because I want to be intimate with any woman, so I want to answer honestly.
Based on my experience, around 70% of the women I have worked with have been able to experience a vaginal orgasm during their first session.
For women who have difficulty feeling sexual pleasure, more time may be needed. Before reaching orgasm, they may first need to discover that sexual stimulation itself can feel good. Certain psychological habits, such as overthinking or finding it difficult to relax, can also make orgasm more difficult.
Among women who have never considered themselves sexually unresponsive, around 90% have experienced a vaginal orgasm during their first session.
Q2. Is It Normal to Be Intimate with a Complete Stranger?
It is completely natural to feel hesitant. In fact, I do not accept applicants who feel no hesitation at all.
The women who take part usually have the same concerns you do. This is an experience outside everyday life, so think of it as an opportunity to step away from your usual self and explore a different side of yourself for one day.
Unlike relationships at school or work, there are no shared social circles or everyday connections to worry about. You can simply focus on yourself and the experience.
Q3. Will My Session Be Recorded?
No. I do not record video during sessions conducted in English.
The videos on this website feature Japanese guests who agreed to have their sessions filmed and the footage published.
A short written session diary is still required and will be published anonymously on the website, as described in the eligibility requirements.
Q4. What Happens During the Session?
Please see the “Pricing & What to Expect” page for a detailed explanation of the session and how it unfolds.
The exact content of each session is adjusted based on your comfort level, sensitivity, and responses.
Q5. The Free Service Makes Me a Little Nervous. Why Is It Free?
Honestly, I think I would feel the same way if I were a woman.
I offer the sessions without a service fee because I am not financially dependent on them, and I do not want to take on the legal and regulatory complications involved in charging for this kind of service. The hotel cost, however, is shared equally between us.
That said, I do not consider this volunteer work. I also have a personal motivation: I enjoy making meaningful connections and helping guests explore what feels good to them.
Q6. Does the Session Include Intercourse?
Being able to relax, let go, and trust the experience can be an important part of reaching a vaginal orgasm.
I will never pressure you into anything, and depending on how the session is progressing, I may decide that intercourse is not appropriate that day.
However, I only accept applicants who are at least open to the possibility of intercourse. If you know from the beginning that you absolutely do not want it under any circumstances, this experience may not be the right fit for you.
Whether intercourse actually happens will always depend on your comfort and consent at the time. Protection will always be used. Sharing the hotel cost does not oblige you to engage in any sexual activity, and you may decline or stop at any time.
Q7. What Precautions Do You Take Against STIs?
I take STI prevention seriously and undergo regular testing to confirm that my results are negative.
I also avoid or minimize direct mucosal contact, including kissing and oral sex, to reduce the risk as much as possible.
Q8. How Long Does a Session Take?
From the time we meet until we say goodbye, the full experience usually takes around three and a half to four hours.
It can be difficult to fully relax when you are watching the clock, so please choose a day when you do not have another commitment immediately afterward.
Q9. Where Will the Session Take Place?
I recommend meeting in Shinjuku or Ikebukuro, as both areas have a large number of love hotels.
Love hotels are often fully booked, especially in areas with fewer options, so choosing one of these locations reduces the risk of being unable to find a room.
Q10. Is the Lingerie Photo for the Session Diary Required?
In most cases, yes, as I would like the session diaries to have a consistent look.
Please wear a favorite matching lingerie set if possible.
Any identifying features, such as distinctive moles or tattoos, will be removed through image editing to protect your privacy.
From Application to Appointment Day
- Submit your application
- Receive a reply from me by email
- Reply to my email
- Arrange the date and time
- Meet at the agreed location on the day
After reading the information above, please use the application form below to contact me if you would like to experience a session.
