This session was with Aya, a 34-year-old office worker. Her reason for applying was, “I wanted to experience a vaginal orgasm.”
Pre-Session Consultation
※The conversation below has been recreated from notes taken on the consultation sheet. No recordings were made.
Sexual Experience
Have you ever used a jofu service or had a sensual massage for women before?
AyaNo. I had wondered whether I should try a jofu service, but I never actually went as far as looking one up.
How old were you when you first had sex, and how many people have you had sex with in total?
AyaI’ve had sex with around 20 people. I first had sex when I was 16.
Are you currently in a relationship?
AyaI have someone who’s more like a friend with benefits.
What is sex usually like for you, and what has it been like with previous partners?
AyaThe person I’m seeing now does spend time on foreplay, but I still can’t orgasm. I don’t really fake my reactions. He takes a long time to finish and proudly claims that because of that, every woman he’s been with has had vaginal orgasms. He seems disappointed that I can’t, but honestly, I suspect most of those women were probably faking it…
In my twenties, sex didn’t feel good at all, and I thought it was something you did for the other person. But in my thirties, I finally discovered how good it could feel and realized, “Wow, I actually really like sex.”
About Orgasms
Have you ever experienced clitoral, vaginal, or mind-induced orgasms?
AyaI’ve had clitoral orgasms. I’ve never had a vaginal or mind-induced orgasm. I’ve listened to audio that was supposed to induce a mind orgasm before, but I didn’t really understand it. I did once orgasm in a dream and wake up from it, though.
How do you feel after a clitoral orgasm? Can you have another one soon afterward?
AyaMy arousal doesn’t really go down. I can orgasm multiple times, so I’d actually like to be pushed until I feel like I can’t take any more.
Have you ever reached orgasm from stimulation by a partner?
AyaOnly once in my life from someone using their fingers. I think I can orgasm if a toy is used.
What do you imagine vaginal and mind-induced orgasms feel like? Have you heard much about them?
AyaI imagine a vaginal orgasm feels different from a clitoral one and must feel incredibly good. I don’t really know what a mind-induced orgasm is like.
Sexual Preferences
How do you usually masturbate, and how often?
AyaAbout three or four times a week, and sometimes every day when I’m in the mood. I usually watch porn. I like things like squirting, threesomes, and scenes where the woman keeps being pleasured until she feels like she can’t take any more.
Do you have any particular kinks? What kinds of sexual situations have turned you on in the past?
AyaI like having my hands held down.
Are there any types of play you are interested in or would like to try?
AyaI want to be pleasured until I feel like I can’t take any more.
Are there any types of play you are uncomfortable with or do not want to try?
AyaI don’t like anything painful or anything that makes it hard to breathe. Being spanked doesn’t really do anything for me either. Someone suddenly slapped my butt once in the past, and it completely killed the mood.
Would you describe yourself as more dominant or submissive?
AyaSubmissive.
Additional Information
Do you experience pain during intercourse?
AyaNo.
Do your clitoris or nipples tend to become painful during stimulation?
AyaNot at all. If anything, I actually prefer stronger stimulation.
How sensitive do you consider yourself to be? Are there any areas of your body that are particularly sensitive?
AyaI don’t think my sensitivity is bad, but it takes me a while to get there. I think I feel more internally near the entrance. My nipples, neck, ears, and back are sensitive too. My body doesn’t really twitch or anything like that, though.
Kink Jar Discussion
I had her fill out the Kink Jar and then asked her more detailed questions about each item.
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Session Details and Impressions
My first impression when we met was that she seemed bright, talkative, and refreshingly straightforward. During the consultation, she spoke openly about her experiences and thoughts, so communication was very easy. On the other hand, even during breaks in the session, she often chatted in much the same way as usual, which made her seem like the type who tends to stay mentally composed rather than becoming completely absorbed in physical sensations.
She described herself as fairly sensitive, but based on what she told me, it seemed possible that she responded more strongly to direct stimulation of specific areas than to light stimulation across the body. Because of that, I suspected that an approach focused on gradually deepening a trance-like state might not be the best match for her.
When I started with feather-light touch, there were almost no obvious twitching reactions, and she did not seem to become especially absorbed through words or atmosphere either. I also tried breathing techniques and alternating muscle tension with relaxation, but there was no major change.
However, once I added direct breast stimulation, her reactions changed noticeably and she began making sounds naturally. In contrast, broader stimulation around the chest and stimulation designed to draw her awareness inward from the outside produced relatively little response. It seemed that her pleasure was particularly concentrated in direct breast stimulation.
Even after moving to the bed, the trance-like state remained relatively shallow. I tried positions where her legs were held in place, stimulation around the vaginal entrance, and internal stimulation, but it was difficult to produce a clear response that looked like a vaginal orgasm. Combining stimulation with a countdown produced a few small reactions, but they did not seem strong enough for her to clearly recognize them herself.
Since her response to external stimulation was fairly subtle at first as well, I paused for an oil massage. During the massage, stronger stimulation around her groin and buttocks made her vocalize, but she still did not enter a state where she seemed able to completely let go and lose herself in the sensations.
After that, I combined breast stimulation with internal stimulation in line with what she wanted, and her response was noticeably different. Her body reacted much more strongly as her internal muscles tightened, and although it was still relatively mild, she was able to reach a state that seemed close to a vaginal orgasm. It appeared that stimulation of her breasts helped bring the internal pleasure together, so combining external pleasure with internal stimulation seemed to suit her well.
Overall, she seemed less responsive to approaches that relied on words or feather-light touch to deepen a trance-like state, and more responsive when stimulation focused directly on areas she already knew were pleasurable, such as her breasts. The key for her seemed to be building arousal first through sensations she could clearly recognize, and then connecting that arousal to internal stimulation.
Post-Session Questionnaire
What made you decide to book a session?
I wanted to experience a vaginal orgasm.
I wasn’t satisfied with the sex I was having.
What was your impression of the therapist?
Gentle but dominant. Younger than I expected.
How would you rate your satisfaction with the session on a scale of one to five?
★★★★★
Please feel free to share any comments about the session or a message for the therapist.
It felt so good, and I’m extremely satisfied.
It honestly made me wonder what all the sex I’d had before even was… (lol)
Thank you so much!
Additional Thoughts Shared by Email
AyaThank you so much for making time for me despite being busy!
I originally booked the session because I was absolutely determined to experience a vaginal orgasm, but in the end, it felt so good that I honestly stopped caring whether I could have one or not.
It was so completely different from anything I had experienced before that I found myself thinking, “Maybe what I’d been doing until now wasn’t even sex (lol). Maybe today was the first time I actually had sex.”
I’ve always had a high sex drive and have wanted to be pleasured so intensely that I completely lose myself, but I usually end up feeling unsatisfied. This time, though, I was completely satisfied (lol).
I love fingering and squirting, but until now, I had never met anyone who would really go all the way with it. Maybe you somehow picked up on that, because it felt so good for so long that I eventually stopped feeling embarrassed altogether and just kept squirting over and over.
The stimulation itself felt incredibly gentle, but somehow the pleasure just kept welling up…
In the past, after sex, even if the actual session had been short and I shouldn’t have been physically tired, I would still feel sluggish and have a heavy sensation in my lower abdomen. This time, even though the session lasted much longer and you did so much more, I didn’t feel sluggish at all. If anything, my body felt lighter and more energized afterward.
I had also always struggled with the cowgirl position. I never felt like I was doing it properly, and I didn’t find it pleasurable, so I had developed a bit of a complex about it. But today, when you carefully showed me how to move, it felt unbelievably good! I was honestly shocked and thought, “Wait, I didn’t know this either?!”
It was also my first time squirting during penetration, and that genuinely surprised me. It felt so good I thought I might lose my mind. (I even started crying and completely ruined my makeup, lol.)
I had always assumed that orgasm = pleasure = greater satisfaction, but I realized that isn’t necessarily true. (Which means I still haven’t even discovered what it feels like to orgasm after pleasure like that, right? lol)
I’m still very aware that my thoughts tend to get in the way, so I want to use your advice and work on letting myself surrender more fully to the experience.
I know I’m close to the upper end of the age range, but if possible, I’d really like to book another session.
I want to experience that pleasure again (lol).
I’m really glad I worked up the courage to contact you and got to meet Aki.
Thank you so much for today!