This session was with Tama, a 27-year-old office worker. Her reason for applying was, “I’d never experienced a vaginal orgasm before, and hearing a friend talk about her experience made me curious.”
Pre-Session Consultation
※The conversation below has been recreated from notes taken on the consultation sheet. No recordings were made.
Sexual Experience
Have you ever used a jofu service or had a sensual massage for women before?
TamaNo, this is my first time.
How old were you when you first had sex, and how many people have you had sex with in total?
TamaI’ve had sex with around 15 people. I first had sex when I was 12.
Are you currently in a relationship?
TamaI don’t have a boyfriend, but there is someone I see once every few months.
What is sex usually like for you, and what has it been like with previous partners?
TamaI think about half of the people I’ve been with did spend a decent amount of time on foreplay. It felt good, but I couldn’t orgasm. I used to fake my reactions a lot, although now I only do it a little. I was mostly thinking that as long as the other person was enjoying themselves, that was good enough.
About Orgasms
Have you ever experienced clitoral, vaginal, or mind-induced orgasms?
TamaI’ve had clitoral orgasms. I’ve never had a vaginal or mind-induced orgasm.
How do you feel after a clitoral orgasm? Can you have another one soon afterward?
TamaI feel kind of spaced out and become very sensitive. I usually masturbate before bed, so I get sleepy afterward. I think I could orgasm again if I waited about 30 minutes.
Have you ever reached orgasm from stimulation by a partner?
TamaNo. I’ve never been able to orgasm from someone else’s stimulation, even when they used a toy.
What do you imagine vaginal and mind-induced orgasms feel like? Have you heard much about them?
TamaA friend told me vaginal orgasms feel kind of floaty. As for mind-induced orgasms, that same friend told me, “If someone tells me to come, I can just come.” I remember thinking, “What are you talking about? Are you okay?”
Sexual Preferences
How do you usually masturbate, and how often?
TamaAbout three times a week. I don’t watch porn; I read manga instead. I’ll read pretty much any genre as long as it isn’t scatological or violent. I used to use toys, but I started thinking that might not be good for me, so now I just use my fingers.
Do you have any particular kinks? What kinds of sexual situations have turned you on in the past?
TamaI’ve been turned on by choking, and also by a sleep-sex scenario where I woke up partway through and we continued from there. Having my wrists tied up was exciting at first too, but when we switched to rear-entry sex, my neck started hurting and it killed the mood for me.
Are there any types of play you are interested in or would like to try?
TamaNothing in particular.
Are there any types of play you are uncomfortable with or do not want to try?
TamaI don’t like anything painful, and I don’t really enjoy being licked. It just feels wet to me rather than pleasurable.
Would you describe yourself as more dominant or submissive?
TamaI think I’m submissive.
Additional Information
Do you experience pain during intercourse?
TamaNo.
Do your clitoris or nipples tend to become painful during stimulation?
TamaNo.
How sensitive do you consider yourself to be? Are there any areas of your body that are particularly sensitive?
TamaI think I’m probably fairly sensitive. Internal stimulation feels good, and so do my nipples. My ears and neck are sensitive too. I haven’t really had many other parts of my body explored, so I’m not sure about anywhere else.
Session Details and Impressions
My first impression when we met was that she had striking eyes and a bright, gentle presence. She also seemed straightforward and easy to talk to. She had a slightly absent-minded, endearing side to her as well, which made her feel very approachable, and I got the impression that her sensitivity was probably fairly good. However, she had mentioned that she tends to focus on the other person during sex, so I thought that might make it a little harder for her to concentrate fully on her own sensations.
Once I actually started touching her body, I could sense from fairly early on that her body was beginning to respond, although she still seemed somewhat tense. As I continued slowly with feather-light touch while encouraging her to breathe, her physical responses gradually increased, and she also began reacting to external stimulation designed to draw her awareness toward internal sensations. At this point, though, it still seemed like tension and pleasure were mixed together rather than her sensations suddenly becoming much deeper.
After moving to the bed, I had her focus more deeply on her sensations using breathing and my voice. She still seemed a little embarrassed, but she responded fairly naturally to the countdown. Stimulation of her breasts, external stimulation, and stimulation around the vaginal entrance all caused her body to twitch, and although the responses were still relatively mild, she was able to progress to what appeared to be a vaginal orgasm.
As I continued with internal stimulation, her responses became increasingly obvious. I checked in with her as we went so that she could more easily recognize the sensations herself, and she also responded to stimulation around the pelvic area. It seemed that she was beginning to understand internal pleasure to some extent.
Once her arousal had built sufficiently, we tried penetration. She responded especially strongly in the cowgirl position and in positions where the angle of her legs was adjusted, and there were moments when her whole body convulsed noticeably. Combining external and internal stimulation made her physical reactions even stronger, and she appeared to become highly aroused.
After taking a break with an oil massage and giving her body some time to rest, we gradually built the stimulation up again. Her sensitivity remained relatively high during the second half. She seemed particularly responsive to positive words and verbal encouragement that gave her permission to orgasm, and her reactions tended to become stronger in response to my voice. When I had her recall the sensations while we were lying together, she also showed signs of a mind-induced orgasm.
Overall, she began the session with some tension and embarrassment, but combining breathing, countdowns, and positive verbal encouragement allowed her to connect with internal sensations relatively smoothly. If she can create a state where she is able to relax her body without worrying about the other person, I think she may be able to experience even deeper responses.
Video (Vaginal Orgasm Exploration)
She allowed me to film part of the vaginal orgasm exploration session.
Post-Session Questionnaire
What made you decide to book a session?
I had never experienced a vaginal orgasm before, and hearing about a friend’s experience made me curious.
What was your impression of the therapist?
I thought he was very kind, especially because he prepared things like drinks and a toothbrush for me.
How would you rate your satisfaction with the session on a scale of one to five?
★★★★★
Please feel free to share any comments about the session or a message for the therapist.
Thank you for accommodating my schedule even though I contacted you on such short notice. I’d love to see you again if I get the chance.
Additional Thoughts Shared by Email
TamaThank you so much for the other day, especially with the weather being so bad!
Even though I was late, you warmly invited me under your umbrella, and my first impression was that you were kind and calm.
You were tall and more handsome than I expected, so I was nervous at first, but chatting casually while we walked to the hotel helped me relax a little!
Once we got to the hotel, you spent about an hour carefully asking me about what I like, what I dislike, and my past experiences. I couldn’t remember a lot of things clearly and ended up giving vague answers, but you changed the way you asked questions and helped put what I was trying to say into better words, which made it much easier for me to answer. I actually wished I had spent a little more time thinking back over my past experiences beforehand.
The consultation helped me realize that what I had thought was enough foreplay actually hadn’t been enough, and that I had never really told a partner what I wanted them to do for me.
I also liked that your advice was based on my own answers rather than just being generic advice from the internet. For example, I had never really liked deep kissing, but you showed me a way of kissing without using too much tongue. It didn’t feel unpleasant at all—in fact, it actually felt good—so I feel like I might be able to overcome my dislike of it.
After the consultation, we each took a shower and then sat on the bed to begin the session. I was genuinely confused—in a good way—by how much Aki’s gentle voice and feather-light touch alone could give me chills and make me feel good (lol). I had always thought I got wet fairly easily, but this was on a completely different level, to the point where I found myself wondering what all my previous foreplay had even been (lol).
Fingering, penetration, toys, and the sensual massage all felt amazing too. The way you switched between a gentle voice and a firmer tone was perfect, and I was surprised by how turned on I could get from just your voice! It was also my first time having my head held in place. I couldn’t move, but you positioned me so that my body wasn’t under strain, which meant I could feel safe enough to enjoy the excitement (lol). My body also started twitching during the countdowns, and penetration felt completely different from anything I had experienced before. It all felt so strange that I constantly had a question mark floating around in my head (lol).
You also asked whether I wanted to try things like squirting and oil massage, so even though you naturally guided the flow of the session, you created an atmosphere where I could still comfortably say no to anything I didn’t want. I really appreciated that. During the breaks, we chatted while you held me in your arms. You also asked every time whether I wanted water or needed to use the bathroom, so thank you for being so attentive even during the breaks!
I still don’t clearly understand what a vaginal orgasm feels like, but I think I experienced something close to it about three times. More than anything, in the past I’ve sometimes had people laugh afterward and say, “You still look like you have plenty of energy left,” but this time I became sleepy during the session, my head felt hazy, and I even felt a little dizzy when I stood up from the bed—that’s how much pleasure I was able to experience! I had also never really sweated during sex before, so I was doubly surprised both that I had started sweating without realizing it and that I had been so absorbed in the experience that I didn’t notice for a while.
Even now, if I smell a similar perfume outside or touch my own lower abdomen or around my waist, my stomach still tightens up, so it’s actually affecting my everyday life a little (lol).
I also feel like I get wet more easily when I masturbate now! I experienced squirting for the first time during this session, and then about a week later I unexpectedly squirted again while masturbating by myself, so I was happy and wondered if my body had become a little more responsive!
You gave me so much of your time that I almost felt bad that the whole experience was free…! I’m really glad I worked up the courage to contact you.
If I have another chance to visit Tokyo, I’d love to see you again.
Thank you so much for everything!