This session was with Sana, a 26-year-old office worker. Her reason for applying was, “Sex with my boyfriend doesn’t feel that good, and masturbating feels better. I thought that if I could learn to experience vaginal orgasms, sex with my boyfriend might become more enjoyable.”
Pre-Session Consultation
※The conversation below has been recreated from notes taken on the consultation sheet. No recordings were made.
Sexual Experience
Have you ever used a jofu service or had a sensual massage for women before?
SanaNo. I’ve thought about using a jofu service because I’ve been sexually frustrated with my boyfriend, but when I looked at the websites, they were full of flashy, overly polished guys posing like models. It felt a little intimidating and too stereotypically “host-like” for me.
How old were you when you first had sex, and how many people have you had sex with in total?
SanaI’ve had sex with five people, and I first had sex when I was 18.
Are you currently in a relationship?
SanaYes. We have sex about twice a month.
What is sex usually like for you, and what has it been like with previous partners?
SanaI do get turned on, but I find myself thinking that I need to act like it feels amazing and pretend to orgasm. It does feel good, but only to a certain extent. I end up exaggerating my reactions because I want to make my partner happy, even though I’m not actually feeling that much pleasure myself. My current boyfriend does spend time on foreplay, but I wouldn’t say he’s particularly good at it.
About Orgasms
Have you ever experienced clitoral, vaginal, or mind-induced orgasms?
SanaI’ve never had a vaginal or mind-induced orgasm. I can have clitoral orgasms.
How do you feel after a clitoral orgasm? Can you have another one soon afterward?
SanaIt doesn’t really change much. I can orgasm two or three times in a row. I become more sensitive afterward, but my arousal doesn’t go down. After two or three orgasms, I get tired and usually just fall asleep.
Have you ever reached orgasm from stimulation by a partner?
SanaIf my partner really puts in the effort, yes.
What do you imagine vaginal and mind-induced orgasms feel like? Have you heard much about them?
SanaI imagine a vaginal orgasm as pleasure that lasts longer than a clitoral orgasm, like a sensation that gradually builds and spreads.
I have absolutely no idea what a mind-induced orgasm feels like. I imagine it as something so intense that I might almost lose control.
Sexual Preferences
How do you usually masturbate, and how often?
SanaIt varies, but usually about once a week. Before my period, I sometimes do it every day. I usually use a wand vibrator. Sometimes I watch videos, and sometimes I fantasize. I watch both porn made for women and mainstream porn where the woman is being pleasured and clearly enjoying it. I don’t like forced or reluctant scenarios.
Do you have any particular kinks? What kinds of sexual situations have turned you on in the past?
SanaI like things involving restraint or blindfolds. I’ve never used rope, but being lightly tied up with a necktie or towel turned me on.
Are there any types of play you are interested in or would like to try?
SanaMaybe very light choking. I don’t like feeling unable to breathe, but I’ve read online that gentle pressure can feel good.
Are there any types of play you are uncomfortable with or do not want to try?
SanaI don’t like anything painful or anything that makes it hard to breathe. I’m probably not interested in anal either.
Would you describe yourself as more dominant or submissive?
SanaI think I’m submissive. I don’t particularly want to give oral sex on my own, but if my partner asks for it and I can see that he’s enjoying it, that turns me on. I don’t like anything that makes it hard to breathe, so I’m not into forced deep-throating.
Additional Information
Do you experience pain during intercourse?
SanaGenerally, no.
Do your clitoris or nipples tend to become painful during stimulation?
SanaNo.
How sensitive do you consider yourself to be? Are there any areas of your body that are particularly sensitive?
SanaI think my sensitivity is pretty good. I can feel pleasure internally and from my nipples, and my ears and back are sensitive too.
Session Details and Impressions
My first impression when we met was that although she seemed a little nervous, she smiled a lot and didn’t seem like the type to put up much of a wall between herself and other people.
From what I heard during the consultation, she did seem to have a tendency to focus too much on her partner’s reactions, which made it harder for her to concentrate on her own pleasure. At the same time, it also sounded like her previous partners’ lack of technique had played a significant role, so I felt she had plenty of potential.
Once I actually started touching her body, she began twitching relatively quickly and her body became very warm. Her surface-level reactions were good, but she still didn’t seem fully immersed in the experience and was holding some tension in her body, so I deliberately avoided touching her nipples right away and focused on teasing her for as long as possible. As we continued, her reactions gradually became stronger, her whole body became more sensitive, and she entered a mild mind-induced orgasm state. She was also able to experience a vaginal orgasm from fingering. After that, she had clitoral orgasms using a TENGA Egg and another sex toy.
She was also able to experience vaginal orgasms during penetrative sex. As she mentioned in her own comments, it was interesting to discover that certain kinds of words triggered much stronger reactions for her. She seemed somewhat submissive, so I tried saying something more direct like, “Come,” but that didn’t seem to work very well. On the other hand, gentler commands such as “It’s okay to come,” “Come for me?” and “You’re going to come so much” seemed to work extremely well for her.
She was able to experience vaginal orgasms in a variety of positions during penetrative sex and ended up completely drenched in sweat, perhaps because she has a fast metabolism. I was glad that she seemed very satisfied with the session.
Video (Vaginal Orgasm Exploration)
She allowed me to film part of the vaginal orgasm exploration session.
Post-Session Questionnaire
What made you decide to book a session?
I wanted to experience more pleasure during sex.
I wanted to experience a vaginal orgasm.
What was your impression of the therapist?
Clean-cut and handsome, and really easy to talk to!
Gentle but dominant.
How would you rate your satisfaction with the session on a scale of one to five?
★★★★★
Please feel free to share any comments about the session or a message for the therapist.
You explained so many things carefully, and it was a really valuable experience that helped me understand a lot more.
I was also able to finally understand what a vaginal orgasm feels like!
Thank you 🙂 It felt amazing.
Additional Thoughts Shared by Email
SanaThank you for today!
【My Thoughts】
My first impression of Aki was that he was tall, handsome, and had a fresh, clean-cut look.
I had been nervous about what kind of person would show up, so I immediately felt much more relieved.
I was incredibly nervous, but you kept talking to me both on the way to the hotel and after we arrived, and little by little I was able to relax and open up!
You listened to me very carefully and really thought about what might help me experience more pleasure, which I really appreciated.
The Kink Jar was fun too!
I was also really happy with all the thoughtful little things you did, like preparing the shower and getting my toothbrush ready.
The session itself felt so good that even I was surprised. It almost felt like it wasn’t my own body.
I remember thinking, “I didn’t know my body could twitch this much without me faking anything.” It was also the first time my voice came out naturally and I couldn’t hold it back.
I experienced both vaginal and mind-induced orgasms for the first time.
Compared with a clitoral orgasm, the vaginal orgasm felt like pleasure that kept going, and I felt like I finally understood, “So this is what a vaginal orgasm feels like!”
I was also shocked that penetration alone could feel that good.
Normally, I honestly don’t feel that much from penetration… but this time it felt amazing.
Personally, I really liked being penetrated from the side, and the position at the end where I was on my back with my legs straight felt especially good.
The mind-induced orgasm was really strange because I was orgasming even though none of my erogenous zones were being touched directly (lol).
I was also really happy to discover what kinds of dirty talk I respond to most strongly.
That was another completely new discovery for me!!
I was surprised by how good it felt just to have my uterus stimulated externally too.
I never expected that alone could make me orgasm.
I also really appreciated that you gave me several breaks, made sure I drank water, and gave me time to use the bathroom.
I loved that you held me in your arms and talked with me about all kinds of things too! That helped me relax a lot.
If someone has any uncertainty or frustration about sex, I’d definitely recommend trying a session at least once.
Honestly, I had such a wonderful time that I’d even like to experience it again myself!!
Thank you so much!!!
Also, Aki smelled really good (lol).
Sorry this got so long.
I guess this is my experience report / review.
Thank you again so much!!