This session was with Nakki, a 32-year-old office worker. Her reason for applying was that she had been unable to experience a vaginal orgasm at a jofu service, so she decided to seek out someone who specialized in it.
Pre-Session Consultation
※The conversation below has been recreated from notes taken on the consultation sheet. No recordings were made.
Sexual Experience
Have you ever used a jofu service or had a sensual massage for women before?
NakkiI used Tokyo Himitsu Kichi once. I went there hoping to experience a vaginal orgasm, but I couldn’t. Also, the therapist penetrated me without a condom and without asking for my consent. I was in the middle of getting a back massage, and before I knew it, he had penetrated me. He just said, “It’s okay, I get tested for STIs.” A friend who used the service around the same time told me she had penetrative sex there too, and when I looked at online message boards, it seemed like a lot of women were saying the same thing. So I thought maybe that was just how the service worked and didn’t complain to the company. I still wanted to experience a vaginal orgasm, so I considered trying another jofu service, but I was scared something similar might happen again. While I was worrying about what to do, I found MICHI. The experience reports made it seem trustworthy, so I decided to book a session.
How old were you when you first had sex, and how many people have you had sex with in total?
NakkiI’ve had sex with around 30 people. I first had sex when I was 18.
Are you currently in a relationship?
NakkiNo. I broke up with my boyfriend about a year ago, and I haven’t had sex with anyone since then.
What is sex usually like for you, and what has it been like with previous partners?
NakkiWith the guy I dated for about four years, sex didn’t feel good at all. I disliked it so much that I would only do it after getting really drunk. He was the type who barely did any foreplay and just wanted to penetrate me right away. Other guys were similar—almost no foreplay, maybe a little kissing, then oral sex, then penetration. A lot of them were very selfish during sex, and a few even forced deep-throating until I threw up. Maybe I’ve just had really bad luck with men.
About Orgasms
Have you ever experienced clitoral, vaginal, or mind-induced orgasms?
NakkiI’ve had clitoral orgasms. I’ve never had a vaginal or mind-induced orgasm.
How do you feel after a clitoral orgasm? Can you have another one soon afterward?
NakkiIt feels like, “Okay, I’m done.” I don’t become especially ticklish afterward. I can have consecutive orgasms, but if the stimulation stays very strong the whole time, it gets exhausting.
Have you ever reached orgasm from stimulation by a partner?
NakkiSometimes, depending on the situation.
What do you imagine vaginal and mind-induced orgasms feel like? Have you heard much about them?
NakkiVaginal orgasms are something I’ve always wanted to experience! With mind-induced orgasms, I imagine someone snapping their fingers and then your whole body starts twitching.
Sexual Preferences
How do you usually masturbate, and how often?
NakkiI hardly masturbate at all lately, except maybe around the time before my period. I bought an insertable toy and looked up a lot of information online because I wanted to explore vaginal pleasure on my own, but it never felt that good. These days, I usually read erotic manga and use a toy for clitoral stimulation.
Do you have any particular kinks? What kinds of sexual situations have turned you on in the past?
NakkiOne thing that turned me on was fooling around outside where there was a chance someone might see us, and then going back to a hotel and having sex afterward.
Are there any types of play you are interested in or would like to try?
NakkiNothing in particular. I do like having my ears licked.
Are there any types of play you are uncomfortable with or do not want to try?
NakkiI had someone lick my toes in the past, and I didn’t like it because it was too ticklish. I’ve tried anal sex before too. It didn’t feel particularly good, but I didn’t dislike it either. I also like having my ears licked.
Would you describe yourself as more dominant or submissive?
NakkiI think I’m submissive, but I’m not really sure. I definitely don’t like things going so far that I end up vomiting or anything like that…
Additional Information
Do you experience pain during intercourse?
NakkiNo.
Do your clitoris or nipples tend to become painful during stimulation?
NakkiNo, they’re fine.
How sensitive do you consider yourself to be? Are there any areas of your body that are particularly sensitive?
NakkiI don’t think I’m particularly sensitive. Things can feel good, but I usually can’t orgasm. My nipples don’t feel especially good. My ears and neck can give me a shivery sensation, but I’m not sure I’d describe it as pleasurable.
Session Details and Impressions
My first impression when we met was that she seemed fairly experienced and perhaps a little guarded or aloof.
As we talked during the consultation, I began to understand why she might be cautious around someone she had just met, especially considering her previous experience with jofu services and her history of bad experiences with men. I hear stories like hers about women-oriented sexual services more often than I would like, and I genuinely wish people in this industry would stop doing things like that. At the same time, she seemed to have plenty of potential for pleasure, so I felt that many of her previous difficulties may have had more to do with the men she had been with than with her own sensitivity.
I initially thought vaginal orgasms might be fairly difficult for her, and when I actually began touching her body, she showed almost no response at first. Still, after taking plenty of time and trying different approaches, she gradually began reacting more. In particular, when I had her tense her muscles strongly and then completely relax them, her body gave a very clear jolt that looked close to a vaginal orgasm response. After that, it seemed as though something switched on. Her entire body became much more sensitive, and she began twitching in response to feather-light touch, nipple stimulation, and fingering, eventually reaching the level of a mild vaginal orgasm.
After that, I restrained her on the bed and used a sex toy to give her several consecutive clitoral orgasms, followed by an oil massage and other stimulation. She was also able to experience vaginal orgasms during penetrative sex afterward, although her mind-induced orgasms remained relatively shallow.
It had been about a year since she last had penetrative sex, and she seemed to experience a little pain, so I did not push her and kept that part of the session brief. Even so, she was able to clearly recognize the sensation of a vaginal orgasm during penetration and said she was extremely satisfied, which I was glad to hear.
Post-Session Questionnaire
What made you decide to book a session?
I wanted to experience a vaginal orgasm.
I had previously tried a jofu service but wasn’t able to have one.
What was your impression of the therapist?
He was very warm, understanding, and supportive.
How would you rate your satisfaction with the session on a scale of one to five?
★★★★★
Please feel free to share any comments about the session or a message for the therapist.
I honestly wanted to do more, but penetration was painful for me because I have some trauma from past experiences with men, so I decided not to push myself. But the session itself was incredible, and I was so surprised to realize, “Even I can have a vaginal orgasm!!” Thank you so much ☺️♡
Additional Thoughts Shared by Email
NakkiI couldn’t experience vaginal orgasms, and the men I dated barely did any foreplay, so I had never really felt that sex itself was pleasurable.
I even tried a jofu service, but I still didn’t understand what a vaginal orgasm felt like…
Those were the problems I had when I eventually found Aki.
From the moment we met, and even on the way to the hotel, he spoke to me gently. I had been quite guarded at first, but little by little I began to open up.
Once we arrived at the hotel, he hung up my coat for me and treated me in a very gentlemanly way.
Before the session, he carefully asked about my boundaries, things I wanted to try, and things I was interested in, and really helped me discover what I liked.
At the beginning of the session, he put a blindfold on me. It helped me focus completely on each individual sensation. Looking back, I realized I had actually been pretty nervous, so the blindfold was definitely the right choice for me!
After that, he restrained me, and because I don’t like very strong stimulation, he kept things gentle. He carefully tried the things I had said I wanted or was curious about, one by one, and I made so many new discoveries like, “Wow, I actually like this!”
I also realized for the first time that I’m actually pretty submissive and that I like the feeling of firm pressure. Because of that, I was finally able to let go and surrender to the experience, and I was able to experience a vaginal orgasm.
Even after the session, he listened to me and gave me advice about what I could do during sex in the future to make it feel better. Thanks to Aki, I feel much less resistant to sex now.
I’m extremely satisfied and really glad I did it.
Thank you so much!