This session was with Mana, a 28-year-old office worker. Her reason for applying was that she wanted to learn how to experience vaginal orgasms.
Pre-Session Consultation
※The conversation below has been recreated from notes taken on the consultation sheet. No recordings were made.
Sexual Experience
Have you ever used a jofu service or had a sensual massage for women before?
ManaNo. I looked at some paid jofu websites too, but they had a really strong host-club vibe… I’m not really into guys who look or act like hosts.
How old were you when you first had sex, and how many people have you had sex with in total?
ManaI’ve had sex with around ten people. I first had sex when I was 20.
Are you currently in a relationship?
ManaNo. I do have someone I meet occasionally for casual sex, kind of like a friend with benefits.
What is sex usually like for you, and what has it been like with previous partners?
ManaIt can feel good, but I have a hard time reaching orgasm and usually can’t. I tend to worry too much about the other person, so it’s much easier for me to orgasm when I’m alone. When I masturbate, I can orgasm very quickly. Sex doesn’t necessarily feel unsatisfying, but I sometimes think it would be even better if I could orgasm. I fake orgasms too.
About Orgasms
Have you ever experienced clitoral, vaginal, or mind-induced orgasms?
ManaI’ve had clitoral orgasms. I’ve never had a vaginal or mind-induced orgasm. But I have woken up from a dream just as I felt like I was about to orgasm.
How do you feel after a clitoral orgasm? Can you have another one soon afterward?
ManaMy body relaxes. My arousal doesn’t really go down, but I do become ticklish. I don’t think I can orgasm again immediately.
Have you ever reached orgasm from stimulation by a partner?
ManaNot that I can remember.
What do you imagine vaginal and mind-induced orgasms feel like? Have you heard much about them?
ManaI’ve heard that vaginal orgasms feel really deep.
I don’t really understand mind-induced orgasms, but I imagine they might feel something like almost orgasming in a dream.
Sexual Preferences
How do you usually masturbate, and how often?
ManaI don’t watch anything or really think about anything. I use a vibrating toy externally. Once I start feeling good, I sometimes insert my fingers too. I masturbate about twice a week.
Do you have any particular kinks? What kinds of sexual situations have turned you on in the past?
ManaI enjoy being choked. I’m submissive, so I think I like being dominated. Feeling embarrassed can turn me on too. I also get excited by doing something sexual while thinking, “I really shouldn’t be doing this here.” One time I had standing rear-entry sex while looking at the night view from a high floor of a hotel, and that was really exciting.
Are there any types of play you are interested in or would like to try?
ManaMy breasts have been feeling really good lately, so I’m interested in experiencing a nipple orgasm.
Are there any types of play you are uncomfortable with or do not want to try?
ManaNothing in particular, although I probably wouldn’t like anything painful.
Would you describe yourself as more dominant or submissive?
ManaI’m submissive.
Additional Information
Do you experience pain during intercourse?
ManaNo.
Do your clitoris or nipples tend to become painful during stimulation?
ManaNo.
How sensitive do you consider yourself to be? Are there any areas of your body that are particularly sensitive?
ManaI think I’m very sensitive. Internal stimulation feels good too. I also like having my ears and neck touched.
Session Details and Impressions
My first impression when we met was that she seemed very friendly and hardly nervous at all. However, she said she actually was nervous and wanted to buy some alcohol, so we stopped at a convenience store before heading to the hotel.
Based on what I heard during the consultation, I felt there were some signs that vaginal orgasms might come relatively easily for her, while other aspects suggested it could be more difficult.
Once I actually started touching her body, her sensitivity seemed fairly good and she showed small twitching reactions, although they were still somewhat shallow. She seemed to have relatively little muscle tone, and she also appeared to have habits such as tensing up or moving her body, which made it difficult for the pleasure to build steadily. Even so, she responded quite well to fingering and seemed to experience a mild vaginal orgasm. After that, we also tried penetrative sex, squirting, oil massage, and a TENGA Egg.
During the second round of penetrative sex, her sensitivity seemed lower than it had been the first time. I often see this with women who are still only experiencing relatively shallow vaginal orgasms. She had said she liked being dominated and also used fairly explicit sexual language herself, so she seemed to have a reasonable amount of sexual experience, but I felt she was still having some difficulty completely letting go and surrendering to the experience.
For now, I was glad that she seemed to get at least some sense of what a vaginal orgasm feels like.
Video (Vaginal Orgasm Exploration)
She allowed me to film part of the vaginal orgasm exploration session.
Post-Session Questionnaire
What made you decide to book a session?
I wanted to learn how to experience vaginal orgasms.
What was your impression of the therapist?
Kind and handsome.
How would you rate your satisfaction with the session on a scale of one to five?
★★★★★
Please feel free to share any comments about the session or a message for the therapist.
Thank you so much!
I’d love to see you again.
Additional Thoughts Shared by Email
ManaAwaiting reply.