This session was with Hana, a 26-year-old office worker. Her reasons for applying were that she was not satisfied with sex and wanted to find a way to actually enjoy it. She also wanted to know what a vaginal orgasm feels like.
Pre-Session Consultation
※The conversation below has been recreated from notes taken on the consultation sheet. No recordings were made.
Sexual Experience
Have you ever used a jofu service or had a sensual massage for women before?
HanaNo. My boyfriend and I had basically stopped having sex, and I had thought about using a jofu service, dating apps, or anonymous social media accounts for sensual exploration. But I didn’t have the courage to do anything with someone else, and it all started to feel a little scary, so I kept hesitating. MICHI felt more reassuring because the website included real comments and experiences from women who had actually used the service, so I decided to book a session.
How old were you when you first had sex, and how many people have you had sex with in total?
HanaI’ve only had sex with one person, and I first had sex when I was 19.
Are you currently in a relationship?
HanaYes. We’ve been together for quite a long time and currently live together. We probably have sex only two or three times a year, if that.
What is sex usually like for you, and what has it been like with previous partners?
HanaIt usually feels more like, “This doesn’t feel that good,” or “This hurts a little.” I still want to have sex, but my boyfriend isn’t very interested, and he doesn’t have much technique and ejaculates quickly, so I’m not really satisfied. When I watch videos, the women look like they’re feeling amazing, and it makes me want to know more about that kind of pleasure, but it feels difficult.
About Orgasms
Have you ever experienced clitoral, vaginal, or mind-induced orgasms?
HanaI’ve never had a vaginal or mind-induced orgasm. I think I’ve probably had a clitoral orgasm, but I’m not really sure what it means to orgasm.
How do you feel after a clitoral orgasm? Can you have another one soon afterward?
HanaI become really sensitive, and then I’m basically like, “Okay, that’s enough.”
Have you ever reached orgasm from stimulation by a partner?
HanaI’m not really sure.
What do you imagine vaginal and mind-induced orgasms feel like? Have you heard much about them?
HanaI imagine vaginal orgasms as feeling incredibly good.
I don’t really understand mind-induced orgasms. I tried listening to mind-induced orgasm audio on YouTube, but I still didn’t really get it. I have this impression that maybe you need to already know what an orgasm feels like before you can experience one.
Sexual Preferences
How do you usually masturbate, and how often?
HanaI hardly ever masturbate. When I do, I watch videos and use a small vibrator on my clitoris. It usually only takes about five minutes. I like videos with a slightly BDSM-style feel, and since I use a toy myself, I also like watching women being stimulated with toys.
Do you have any particular kinks? What kinds of sexual situations have turned you on in the past?
HanaI’ve only ever used one kind of toy, so I’m curious about trying other ones.
Are there any types of play you are interested in or would like to try?
HanaI’d like to try sex in different positions. I’m also interested in some soft BDSM.
Are there any types of play you are uncomfortable with or do not want to try?
HanaI don’t like pain. Other than that, I don’t think there’s anything in particular.
Would you describe yourself as more dominant or submissive?
HanaI think I’m more submissive.
Additional Information
Do you experience pain during intercourse?
HanaIt hurts when penetration begins. I think it’s probably because we don’t have sex very often and there are long gaps between each time, and also because there isn’t much foreplay.
Do your clitoris or nipples tend to become painful during stimulation?
HanaNo.
How sensitive do you consider yourself to be? Are there any areas of your body that are particularly sensitive?
HanaI can orgasm in about five minutes, so I think I’m probably quite sensitive. Sometimes internal stimulation feels good too, but then I start thinking too much or feel some pain and end up thinking, “That’s enough.” I’ve never really thought nipple stimulation felt good. My ears and neck just feel ticklish.
Session Details and Impressions
My first impression when we met was that she was smiling a lot but still seemed quite nervous. I particularly remember her repeatedly saying, “I’m so nervous.” She also seemed like a genuinely nice person and even brought me a small gift.
Based on what I heard during the consultation, it was difficult to know exactly how she would respond because she had only ever had one sexual partner, but I felt that the session probably would not be especially difficult.
Once I actually started touching her body, she began twitching and reacting fairly quickly. Her reactions were mild at first, but as I tried different types of stimulation, they gradually became stronger until her whole body became very sensitive. When I then tried fingering, she was able to experience a relatively shallow vaginal orgasm. After that, she had several consecutive clitoral orgasms using a TENGA Egg, and we then tried penetrative sex. She said there was a little pain at first, but she quickly adjusted, and afterward she was able to experience vaginal orgasms in a variety of positions.
She responded especially strongly when I used the TENGA Egg while she was in the cowgirl position, and she ended up orgasming repeatedly. We also tried mind-induced orgasm guidance, and I think she was able to experience a mild one. I was glad that she seemed satisfied with the session.
Video (Vaginal Orgasm Exploration)
She allowed me to film part of the vaginal orgasm exploration session.
Post-Session Questionnaire
What made you decide to book a session?
I wasn’t satisfied with sex and had never really been able to enjoy pleasurable experiences myself, so I wanted to learn what they felt like and actually experience them.
What was your impression of the therapist?
He seemed kind, clean, and made a very good impression.
How would you rate your satisfaction with the session on a scale of one to five?
★★★★★
Please feel free to share any comments about the session or a message for the therapist.
It was such a wonderful experience!
Thank you so much!
Additional Thoughts Shared by Email
HanaSince this was my first time, I was nervous from the moment we met and couldn’t really speak very well at first…
But everything was prepared very carefully, the explanations were easy to understand, and the consultation was so gentle that I found it very easy to talk to you!
I even ended up talking about feelings I had never told anyone before 😳︎
You also guided me very gently during the session.
I was extremely tense at first, but I gradually managed to relax, and it was amazing to feel my body reacting in ways I had never experienced before!
There are still so many things I haven’t experienced, and now I feel like exploring and discovering more could actually be fun.
I’m really glad I had the opportunity to experience this with Aki!