Overcoming Painful Sex & Low Sensitivity | Vaginal and Mind-Induced Orgasms – | Jofu Experience #1

No, this will be my first time.

I first had sex at 23, and I’ve had sex with two or three people.

Yes, I am.

My boyfriend does not seem to enjoy foreplay very much, so he rarely uses his fingers on me or gives me oral sex. At the same time, he seems to expect me to perform oral sex on him as if it were only natural.
I have not felt very satisfied, so I usually pretend to enjoy it. I fake the sounds I make, and when he tries to make me orgasm, he will not move on until he thinks I have. Because of that, I tense or jerk my body and pretend to climax every time.

I can reach orgasm through clitoral stimulation, but I have never experienced a vaginal or mind-induced orgasm.

Immediately afterward, I do not want to be touched anymore. It feels overly sensitive—almost like a stinging sensation, although it is not exactly painful.
I usually recover after a minute or two, and after that, I can sometimes have another clitoral orgasm.

No, I have never had an orgasm with a partner.

I imagine a vaginal orgasm might feel weaker than a clitoral one.
Does a mind-induced orgasm mean your brain sort of short-circuits?
I have heard the terms before, but I cannot really imagine what either experience would feel like.

Usually one to three times a week. I tend to do it while imagining my boyfriend touching me. I just lie down and use my fingers—I do not use toys or anything like that. I usually have a clitoral orgasm after about 10 to 20 minutes, and then I stop.

I would not necessarily call it a kink, but I think I am quite submissive. I also find it a little exciting to do something sexual in a situation where other people are nearby, while trying not to get caught.

Since I am submissive, I am interested in being tied up. I would prefer something light rather than serious bondage—just having my hands or feet gently restrained. I am also interested in trying sex toys.

Nothing in particular.

I would say I am about 30% dominant and 70% submissive.

The vaginal opening hurts, and the skin at the lower edge seems to tear every time. I do not think my boyfriend is particularly large, though.
It may depend on the position, but it happens every time in the missionary position. Penetration from behind is too painful for me.

My clitoris starts to hurt if it is stimulated for too long. Even when I masturbate, I usually leave the clitoral hood in place rather than pulling it back.
My nipples do not usually become painful.

I do not feel much from internal stimulation. However, I think my nipples, ears, and back are on the sensitive side.

Even while Aki-san was speaking softly to me, I could already feel a tingling sensation somewhere around my lower abdomen or vaginal area.

After moving to the bed, I was a little nervous when a toy was inserted because it was my first time. However, it went in much more smoothly than I expected. As soon as it was inside, it seemed to touch a warm, slightly pleasurable spot.

That area gradually became hotter and more sensitive throughout the session, and I realized, “So this is what it feels like to experience pleasure internally.” The most intense moment was when my nipples were being touched while I was also being stimulated internally. It felt incredibly good.

Until now, I had only ever experienced clitoral orgasms. A clitoral orgasm feels like a sharp, concentrated sensation of heat and tension around my clitoris. A vaginal orgasm, by contrast, felt like heavy waves rising from deep inside my body. Each time a wave came over me, my mind seemed to go completely blank.

During the mind-induced orgasms, my sensitivity somehow kept increasing as Aki-san whispered to me. I could not believe how strongly I reacted to something as simple as having my nipples touched or pressure applied to my abdomen.

At first, I wondered whether the sensation meant I was about to orgasm. Before I knew it, I was clearly having one. My entire body began trembling, and eventually I could no longer think about anything.

The sensations have not completely faded yet. Even now that I am home, I can still feel a tingling sensation deep in my lower abdomen.

Sex had always involved pain for me in the past, so this experience made me realize all over again just how much pleasure my body is actually capable of feeling. It was a truly wonderful experience.

I had always held part experience.

I had always held part of myself back before, but today I completely let go. I naturally found myself crying out things like “That feels so good” and “I’m going to come”—things I would never normally say out loud.

That is how amazing it felt.

Thank you so much! 🙇